Tribute to friendship

In Santa Fe (New Mexico) a friend told us that it is important for her to start a new year with a special activity. It doesn’t matter which activity as long as it is something she enjoys and/or wishes for that year. On 1st of January we did a day trip on our bikes with an old friend and a new friend. Cycling is important to us. Friends are important to us.

On 30th of December one of my oldest and best friends Arnold flew from the Netherlands to New Mexico and joined us for three weeks. We cycled with him from Santa Fe (New Mexico) to El Paso (Texas).

I know Arnold since almost 15 years. We met during our studies at the students cycling club in Utrecht. He is still cycling a lot, especially on the road bike. Winter in the Netherlands is not so much fun. It is gray, rainy and there is hardly any sun. Arnold is working a lot and it seemed a good idea to him to escape this somberness for a couple of weeks. I promised him to help him organise everything. He needed to book his flight, buy camping gear and a bike. Taking a bike on the airplane is possible of course. We have already done that many times before. But it is annoying to take the bike apart, pack it in a huge box, transport that box to the Airport and check it in. Reverse that process when you arrive at your destination. Instead we decided to buy a second hand bike in Santa Fe. Peter and I planned to arrive two weeks earlier in Santa Fe than Arnold. We searched the web and went to different bike shops. Finally we found an almost new Raleigh for $120 which we trusted to be strong enough to master the 350 miles (500 km) to El Paso. Arnold was satisfied with our choice and we had no problems with the bike except one flat tire and a broken screw on the rack which we easily replaced.

Though we have a lot of encounters with different people and make new friends on the road it is special to spend time with an old friend. We didn’t only talk about the past and common friends but created new common experiences and memories.

Arnold is used to work in an office 60 hours a week. Of course cycle touring is something  totally different. Pitching your tent everyday, cold nights, strong winds, being able to buy food only every couple of days, wearing the same clothes without washing them for several days/weeks and not having a shower everyday is something you have to get used to. But Arnold is healthy and strong and he enjoys those little challenges. I don’t have a picture of how dirty Arnold was after seven days on the road and in the tent, but I have one of Ben and Esmé 🙂

It is only sand but it sticks to your skin from all the sweat and sunscreen. Furthermore the sand is all over: in your tent, sleeping bag, pockets, pants and socks. Especially if the wind is blowing very strongly, which happened several times on that route. It is also a challenge to cook and eat without sand blowing into your food.

The highlight of our three weeks together with Arnold were definitely the white sand dunes composed of gypsum crystals in White Sands National Monument, New Mexico.

Beforehand we knew that it is possible to backcountry camp in the dunes. We arrived around 4 pm at the visitor center where we had to get a permit. Then we cycled another 6 miles (10 km) to the parking lot where we left our bikes. We walked for 1 mile (1.5 km) to our camping spot. When we started walking and carrying our panniers (we walked back and forth because we couldn’t carry all the panniers in one time) it got dark already. There was a lot of wind on that day and the sand was flying through the air. The kids were wearing sunglasses to keep the sand out of their eyes. As soon as you enter the dunes it is like a moon landscape and difficult to orientate in the dark. There were little signs that reflected the light of our headlights, that was how we knew where to go. We stayed together and Peter and I were in a good mood. The kids are always doing great when we are in difficult situations. Arnold was ok but it was definitely not his happiest moment. He must have been worried about finding our campsite. I trust Peter. He is a very good navigator and guide and he would let me know if we were in danger. After getting lost two or three times we found our campsite.

Ben and Esmé always play and are in a good mood, no matter how late it is.

Due to the wind it was difficult to pitch the tent. The sand was so soft that the tent pegs kept coming out all the time. With a lot of effort Arnold and I were able to pitch our two tents. Work that normally takes us 15 minutes took us about one hour. That evening was hard, but we were rewarded the next day by beautiful weather and stunning scenery.

We easily made it to El Paso on time.

We had a great time with our friend but it was hard to say goodbye for me. It meant a lot to me that Arnold joined us. Now he knows how my daily life looks like, how great and how hard it can be.

El Paso: On the other side of this fence is Mexico. Border patrol is everywhere here.

Arnold flew back to the Netherlands and we continued into Texas.

We crossed the Chihuahuan Desert. Our tires are a little bit old already and five out of seven tires had punctures due to thorns and thin metal wires. Our record were five punctures on two different tires in one day.

We called this a “killer thorn”. It took me half an hour to make sure no thorns, which could damage our sleeping mattresses, are underneath the tent.

For the last two weeks we stayed with friends in Victoria, Texas. We organized new tires, shoes, clothes and rain gear. From experience we know that it is difficult to find good outdoor clothes and equipment in Mexico. Our friends pamper us and the children with good food, movies, games, a visit to the zoo and a lot more. I think, that we gained several kilos of weight in the last couple of weeks. This spoiling will probably be the last one in a long time. The USA is definitely the most generous country we have visited so far.


6 thoughts on “Tribute to friendship

  1. Mooi verhaal Petra! Leuk het hele verslag terug te lezen (niet helemaal makkelijk voor mij in het Engels, maar grotendeels snap ik het) en de vele foto’s. Arnold had natuurlijk al veel verteld, maar zo hoor ik nog meer! Arnold is weer op zijn volgende vakantie nu in Alicante in Spanje. En natuurlijk weer fietsen! Jullie nog heel veel fietsplezier en groeten van ons. Jan en Ineke

  2. Prachtig verhaal, super mooie foto’s en wat worden de kids al groot!
    We genieten steeds opnieuw van al jullie verhalen en foto”s.
    Het gaat jullie heel goed zo te horen… dus maar doorgaan!
    Lieve groeten uit Limburg van Nico en Trudy

  3. Peter and Petra
    Thanks so much for this Awesome email! What a bonus to have a life long friend along with you for a leg of your journey! That had to feel so awesome! QSweet memories and moments to keep! Scott and I are so Amazed at your determination, will power , courage, sense of humor, and sense of Adventure!

    What beautiful places along the way! What incredible challenging character building experiences! We have such Joy when we consider who you both are…but your children who will live long into the future will be adding so much light to wherever they go and in everything they will yet accomplish! You are all so Resourceful, Resilient and Patient your masters at these abilities. What a unique one of a kind of family following your passion and making a difference for good in this world!

    We Love your photographs! Gorgeous! We send Light and Love your way! Keeping you in our prayers! I’m just letting my thoughts flow. That was a big old thorn under your tent! Wow!
    We can’t even believe how many peddles you have taken qre with you guys in Chisec Guatemala. The tires on your bikes have more niles than most people’s cars,,, no wonder they wear out so fast!! We still feel bad we didn’t get to meet up in Moab!

    Our work in Guatemala is going along in beautiful ways! We are enjoying the journey. We Love being the people in the middle and bringing people together for a good cause. Small and simple things make a huge difference!

    Our lives are blessed because we know you and your precious family! Thanks ever so much for keeping us up dated! Please keep us in the loop! Give hugs to each other and then know they are from us!

    Our Love and faith are tucked in your gear bags!
    Keep on keeping on!
    You may be the only family who has ever passed this way!!
    Enjoy the journey!
    We are so Proud of you all!
    Travel safe!
    Kim and Scott

    Sent from my iPad

  4. Hola lindo día admiro mucho lo que hacen Dos los cuide en su trayecto y viendo vengan a Chiapas acá tienen una buena ducha y Comida p tu familia doy de Tapachula Chiapas México avísame cuando pasen acá nos gustaría mostrarles un poco de mi país 😉

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